Like anyone, I occasionally fall into the self-pity trap. And when we’re caught in that trap, it’s kind of embarrassing to ask for help. On top of whatever disappointing thing happened to cause the original negative emotions, now we’re stuck in a self-imposed pity party that we can’t pull out of. That’s where I was [ ]
Thursday 30 October 2025
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A Question to Defeat Self-Pity
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